Happy Birthday, Cady!

Five years ago,almost to the minute (10:14 I think), Cady was born. The experience wasn't like our previous two (or like Kenley's six months ago). We knew there were going to be some complications; Kelly's water had meconium mixed in (the baby's stool) and we expected some breathing issues to follow. However, meconium aspiration is not an uncommon complication, so we weren't too worried. As it turned out, the six week roller coaster ride in the NICU afterwards resulted in a gut wrenching realization: our baby was not going to grow up like the others.

Of course, we were devastated and immediately went into denial. We kept thinking her brain would find a way to repair itself or circumvent the damaged area. But, ... that didn't happen. Instead, we now have Cady as she is and love her nonetheless. Really. One time, Kelly and I were talking about our children and I told her that Cady was my favorite. She looked shocked because I'm actually closer to our two older children (Callia and Kiefer) and I love them so much. But, there's a very soft place in my heart for Cady that will never get crowded by anyone else. I'm not a soft, caring person (on the outside), but I really feel for those in need, especially children, especially Cady.

So, no running today. Just a little party consisting of close family, pizza, cake and ice cream. We're planning a family run on Sunday at the middle school track. That should be fun for everyone.

Cady smiling as we sang 'Happy Birthday' to her. Soon after, she smeared chocolate all over her face and into her eyes - I had to give her a shower!